Review: Sense and Sensibility

Sense And Sensibility by Jane Austen
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Jane Austen is one of my long-time favorite authors, and this is one of my favorites of her books, but I’ve read it so many times in the past (and not for a long time), and I’ve seen the movie adaptations so many times that I fear there are details I gloss over or misremember, and this excellent audio narration by Rosamund Pike allowed me to slow down and hear everything anew. I saw things I hadn’t never, and reveled in both the humor and pathos of this story of love lost, love unrequited, and love found.

My favorite relationship in this book is that between Elinor and Marianne, though for many years I held Marianne in much less regard. I sympathized with Elinor’s tendency to hide her affections, and found Marianne’s high spirits and lack of care immature and obnoxious. Maybe it was Emma Thompson heart wrenching portrayal of Elinor in the 1995 adaption forever imprinted in my brain, but when she says to Marianne, “What do you know of my heart? What do you know of anything but your own suffering? …Believe me, Marianne, had I not been bound to silence I could have provided proof enough of a broken heart, even for you,” my heart broke for her and raged at Marianne for being so heartless and thoughtless.

The thing is, though, Marianne is SO young. It’s easy to forget that she’s 16-17 years old, with all the talk of marriage, and though her personality already lent itself to throwing oneself wholeheartedly into everything, she also had the confidence of youth to assume you know everything and that your opinion will never change. Take her opinion early on that one can only really fall in love once, and if that love is lost, you’re destined to be alone forever - clearly that’s not true, and though I don’t wish upon Marianne the heartbreak she goes through with Willoughby, it was certainly a growth experience, as was her sickness and time of recuperation. And seeing everything Elinor went through with Edward, everything Marianne had missed with her own emotional preoccupation, really opened her eyes to the trials of those around her. She’s much more sympathetic and supportive to Elinor, once she knows the truth of the situation, than I recall. There is much miscommunication and misplaced assumptions in this book, but between the sisters, it’s more a case of the two having very different personalities and misunderstanding one another’s meaning of word and action.

If anything, I found Elinor to be a little self-righteous at times, especially about Marianne and Willoughby’s relationship, and later how much Colonel Brandon “deserved” Marianne for his incredible kindness and good nature. Elinor, women are not property! You should know better! I’m not even going to touch on the age difference; I think it’s enough to say it was a different time, and there were different expectations for who an appropriate marriage partner was back then. I’m satisfied that Colonel Brandon was eventually Marianne’s whole-hearted choice, and she wasn’t coerced or forced into that position.

As for the men in this story, they ranged from ridiculous to insipid to enraging at various times. I know the ladies eventually forgive Willoughby a bit, but I think he got less than what he deserved: a sad life full of regret instead of jail time. I’m still a little surprised that Colonel Brandon was just going to stand by while Willoughby married Marianne, even after knowing what he did to his ward, Beth. Surely you could have made that a little more common knowledge? As for Edward, he was much too oblivious and noble for his own good - it took him way too long to realize his feelings for Elinor, and he really should have broken off his engagement to Lucy when he did realize them. Also, I’m with the Jane Austen Society on this one - Hugh Grant was way too attractive to play Edward Ferrars.

On the positive side, at least most of these men finally followed their feelings. The second he heard of his broken engagement, Edward went to Elinor to confess and propose. Colonel Brandon did everything he could to help the Dashwoods, not only because he was in love with Marianne, but because he genuinely cared for Elinor and Mrs. Dashwood and wanted to ease their lives and bring them happiness. Willoughby…. I find it hard to say positive things about him, but at least he came clean about his initial intentions and eventual feelings towards Marianne. I think that knowledge helped Marianne feel vindicated in her read of their relationship, even though it didn’t change that it he as over. And his greed helped Marianne dodge a huge bullet, because I agree with Elinor - had he and Marianne married, he would have found something else to regret or be discontented by.

I’m looking forward to continuing my rereads of all Jane Austen’s books this year, as well as reading various adaptations!

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